Message-ID: <31575228.1075840369090.JavaMail.evans@thyme> Date: Tue, 8 Jan 2002 16:53:52 -0800 (PST) From: sally.beck@enron.com To: suew2@aol.com Subject: Follow Up Mime-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; charset=us-ascii Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit X-From: Beck, Sally X-To: 'suew2@aol.com' X-cc: X-bcc: X-Folder: \sbeck\Sent Items X-Origin: BECK-S X-FileName: sally beck 1-28-02.pst Sorry to cut the conversation short last night, but frankly I was in tears and it didn't make sense to continue the conversation. Certainly if you feel more comfortable staying at a hotel, you should do what you think is best for you. We will just be happy to have you with us for whatever time you feel is right for you. My reaction last night was simply shock, because we had never discussed your staying at a hotel during this visit. And your lead in to the conversation with "you know we are staying at a hotel...", was such a surprise. Yes, you stayed at a hotel when you were here for Thanksgiving, but that was with Cindy, Richard, Brigeda, Chris and Cara staying in our home as well. With just the two of you, and since you had said nothing to the contrary, I assumed that you would be in our home. What you couldn't know, of course, is the caring time that I have taken over the last several weeks to complete a refresh of the guest room, all with the timing based on having it ready for the two you for this weekend. But it was this special effort for your visit that made it particularly surprising and then disappointing to me that you will stay at a hotel. I had it down to the details of new hangers for the closet, a real bed instead of just a frame, I ironed sheets on Sunday night (something that I never do for us!) and have my framer on a tight turn-around on reframing some family pictures to complete a wall in the guest room. Certainly other guests can enjoy these things, too, but my timing on everything was to make the room even more comfortable and complete for you by the time of your visit. I have certainly gotten comfortable today with the idea that you will stay in the hotel, and again, whatever is best for you. Sounds as if we should make that the "norm" from this point forward, and then expectations will be set ahead of time for everyone. I do hope that you can come in time for lunch on Friday. I am planning to take the day off from work, and the plan was that David would join us so that the four of us could have lunch at Champions. David has taken some office space near Champions, and we had planned to show you that as well. Then we can rest (you can to do that at the hotel, if that is better for you), before having our nails done at 4:00. But again, whatever works best for you. Just let us know. --Sally