Message-ID: <13793455.1075841881694.JavaMail.evans@thyme> Date: Mon, 20 Nov 2000 05:47:00 -0800 (PST) From: kate.symes@enron.com To: asymes@gladstone.uoregon.edu Subject: RE: Mime-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; charset=us-ascii Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit X-From: Kate Symes X-To: asymes @ ENRON X-cc: X-bcc: X-Folder: \kate symes 6-27-02\Notes Folders\Sent X-Origin: SYMES-K X-FileName: kate symes 6-27-02.nsf I'm so stoked you're going to Buena Vista Social Club. I can't believe you are such a rotten "bik" that you didn't invite me. What's up with that? My advice on the Outward Bound thing is to hold off. Not for selfish, wine-swilling reasons, of course; but because I know how tiring it gets to be living out of a suitcase with no dinero for a period of time. I have to say that sticking around Portland for the last six months has given me a renewed sense of mental health. Granted, I'm not totally sane yet, but at least I can imagine what it would be like. If you came home and turned right around and went to Colorado, you'd feel unprepared and maybe a little overwhelmed. Think carefully about how much Outward Bound would pay you in comparison with how much money you actually need to get by. Then add $500/month to that figure, and you'll be about right. It always sounds easier than the reality - I'm only speaking from Maui experience here. If you want to do a whirlwind Denver thing and have a great, rustic, totally broke time, then totally go for it. But if you feel like you're getting to the end of your rope with scraping by and feeling unsettled - which it kind of sounds like you are - then hang in P-town for awhile. Like I said, I'd feel SOOOO much better about taking off on my next adventure NOW than I would have even a couple months ago. And it's only been six months since I got back - that's not really too long to wait. In the meantime, you don't have to live with mom. The Malachowsky's room will be open, although for all the help I've given them I wouldn't be surprised if they don't want a Symes there anymore. Then there's always my future apartment. I'm thinkin' downtown for sure. Anyway, we'll talk more about it in Mexico. Don't stress - whatever you're meant to do, you'll end up doing whether you like it or not. Love, Kate